For twenty days I have been blogging my interpretation of each daily meditation, as well as how it affects me or pertains to my life, but today I am going to paste in the link for the meditation, because I think it is important that you follow this word for word.
Self-confidence comes easier to some than others. It does not come easily to me, but as I have mentioned in the past, sometimes life events might condition how we think about ourselves, even when we have family or good friends that do their best to give you confidence. Mean words hurt, mean words from peers that you want to like you, can hurt even more.
So how does one move past this? Hear only the positive words, feel only the positive vibes. Mean words hurt yes, but people spewing nastiness, are people that do not positively serve your life and so you must let them go.
I am beginning to believe that everything happens in divine right time. That being said, I can honestly tell you that I do each meditation, day by day. I don't look to see what the next day is. Yesterday morning I (safely) burned a list I had written last week. It was a list that noted all of the negative things that do not positively serve me or my life. Events in my life that I have allowed to hold me back and keep my confidence at a lower level than it should be. Today, I took those ashes, spread them out inside a heart I drew in the sand and then let the wind take them away. I let the breeze blow away the broken pieces in my heart, until just a complete heart was left. I soon felt a wave of self-love flow over me and what a feeling that was.
Symbolism works for me. Seeing my "pain" blow away helped me understand that my off and on confidence has always been there just waiting for me to keep it out in the open, Do what works best for you, but do it, because it is better to hold on to only the good, than to hold on to the bad.
Enjoy this meditation: Meditation to boost self-confidence
Until tomorrow...know you are beautiful/handsome and tell yourself, 'Self, I love you and you're worth it."
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